4 February 2020
Are you putting on weight and don’t know why? Do you find yourself overeating but don’t know what to do about it? Maybe you always eat on the run, quickly fitting in food between other things, or absentmindedly munching in the car, or as you sit at the computer?
It’s easy to eat mindlessly, as if on automatic pilot, putting food into our mouths almost without noticing.
Very often hunger and the body’s need for food is not the reason we eat. Instead, we eat to socialise, relieve stress, combat boredom, make ourselves feel better, and to satisfy cravings.
Eating has turned into something we do to fill any number of needs, and so we often end up eating mindlessly without enjoying what we are doing..
Eating mindfully can be an antidote to this type of distracted overeating. Mindful eating can help us to understand our patterns around food, such as eating too much, emotional eating or eating when we’re not hungry.
Learning to slow down and pay attention when we eat, is probably one of the best ways to get the mind and body to communicate and listen to the body’s needs.
The body sends signals it’s satisfied roughly 20 minutes after the brain. This is one of the reasons we unconsciously overeat. If we slow down, the body gets a chance to catch up to the brain and interpret the signals to eat the right amount.
For more on understanding your body’s signals have a look at https://www.blossomhypnotherapy.com/the-benefits-of-body-awareness/
We can learn not to eat from emotional signals such as stress, sadness, frustration, loneliness or boredom, and instead, to listen to our body’s signals.
A growling stomach, lack of energy or feeling lightheaded are the body’s way of telling us to eat. Often, we eat when our mind tells us, rather than our body, and as a result this can lead to overeating.
Mindful eating involves listening to our body’s hunger signals, sitting down to eat, using all our senses, learning to slow down and enjoy our food.
Researchi indicates that mindful eating:
If you would like to stop distracted eating, there are steps you can take to change. Mindful eating is a skill that takes thought and practice. By focusing on changing in steps and stages, it can be done. With practice, eating mindfully can become as automatic as overeating.
When I work with clients who want to eat more mindfully, I listen to all their worries and fears about giving up their eating habits. I support them to make changes at a pace that is right for them. We work together to develop a balanced attitude to food and to integrate mindful eating into daily life.
For more on how I can help you with overeating and emotional eating see https://www.blossomhypnotherapy.com/treatment/weight-loss/
First of all, try and rate how hungry you are on a scale from 1 -10. Imagine 1 is not hungry at all and 10 is starving hungry.
For one day, each time you eat, take a moment to notice where you are on the scale.
As a result of doing this, you may find it easier to tell the difference between being physically hungry or emotionally hungry.
Start to become aware of how you eat by taking one mindful bite every time you eat. Try and make it your first bite, as it will be easier to remember. Don’t worry if it isn’t though, as just taking one mindful bite every time you remember can still make a difference.
As you take your first bite, slow down and ask yourself why you feel like eating and what emotions or needs (other than hunger) may be triggering the eating.
Next, notice the colour, smell, texture and also the taste of the food while you are eating. Take time to tune in to how you feel as you taste it. While you are eating, notice if you are enjoying it.
Take time to observe what kind of foods you choose to eat. Do you pick nourishing foods that feel satisfying and comforting? Or, in contrast, foods that make are quick and easy to eat?
As a result of slowing down and taking time, we often find we want to eat more healthily.
We may have a negative story we tell ourselves about healthy foods, because we associate them in our minds with dieting and deprivation.
For more about how overeating can be down to dieting have a look at https://www.blossomhypnotherapy.com/when-food-rules-your-life-disordered-eating-explained/
When we start to notice what we like to eat, we can find we often enjoy healthy food more than we thought. The more we practice eating a greater range of food, including healthier items, so we become less inclined to binge on comfort foods, and more ready to choose healthy food.
When we are distracted as we eat, it’s much harder to listen to our body’s signals about food and other needs.
See if you can take time to focus on eating and nothing else. The next time you have a meal, avoid screens and distractions while you eat. Instead, concentrate on enjoying the conversation and company as you share the experience of eating a meal together.
The more you manage to enjoy your food, the less likely you are to overeat.
Often we use food or drink as a way to reward ourselves. Make a list of other ways to reward yourself because you’ve had a hard day.
So when things are difficult, rather than turning to food to feel better, you could choose something from your list instead.
Similarly, it can help to make an if…then plan for times you are tempted by emotional eating. This way you have a plan in place and it helps you to make different choices in the moment and avoid overeating.
Here is an example of an if…then plan.
“If I am bored…then I will phone my best friend for a chat”
” If I am angry…then I will go to the gym”
“ If I am stressed…then I will have a bath”, etc.
It helps to make a plan of what you will do for each individual emotion, so that when that emotion comes up for you, you know what action to take to avoid emotional eating.
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i Warren JM, Smith N, Ashwell M. A structured literature review on the role of mindfulness, mindful eating, and intuitive eating is changing eating behaviours: effectiveness and associated potential mechanisms. Nutr Res Rev. 2017 Dec;30(2):272-283. doi: 10.1017/S0954422417000154. Epub 2017 Jul 18.Back to blog listing
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